July 28, 2019

On Sundays, I Don't Make Plans

On Sundays, I Don't Make Plans
On Sundays, I Don't Make Plans
Happy Sunday everyone, I hope the day is treating you well! I just woke up and decide to write this little impromptu post for the day. Strangely enough, I had a very busy weekend and I severely overslept! That normally never happens to me but I guess I needed the rest! I didn't have any specific plans for the day but what I will say is that I enjoy this quiet time at home. Days like these gives me time to rest and think about all of the upcoming decisions I need to make for the latter part of the year. I hate having to be responsible in this area but if I don't then another year will pass me by! I know people like to say "you're still young, take your time"  but the thing is, time is not in our hands! You never know what tomorrow holds so I am a firm believer in using my time wisely while I have breath in my body!

Don't get me wrong, I think there are always times where I can afford to be a little bit carefree but living in the unknown daily is kinda scary! I think when I was younger I thought to myself Hey, I can totally wing this but now that I am 28 years old I feel completely different about that! Call me old fashioned but the one thing I want to have in my life and future is stability! Without that, I feel like I am just floating around in this ever-changing space of the human experience. I don't know about you guys but the world seems to be changing in hyper speed and I feel like I can barely keep up! As a millennial, I know this may feel the constant shifts as well but I think we have all become extremely accustomed to it now.

So even though I have been a master planner and functioning winger my entire life, I think I am finally ready to change those little habits about myself. I am not saying that I am going to change how I navigate my experiences entirely but there are a few parts of me that need to grow up now. My entire life I NEVER understood why Peter Pan never wanted to grow up but now I see why. Adulting is hard and no one ever prepares you for the little decisions that you have to make on your own. You are truly in a space where you have to pick and choose your own destiny and believe it or not, that's actually pretty scary! I am learning to give myself more credit for everything that I have accomplished which is a WHOLE LOT to say the least! I guess what I'm trying to say is....I don't even know the point I am trying to get across and unfortunately, it be like that sometimes. And that's just life at the end of the day!

Anyways, that's all the little chatter I had for the day! Today is going to be all about relaxing, eating and planning the rest of the week. But before I sign-off for the day, I would like to know, how do you guys spend your Sundays at home? Let me know in the comments down below! See ya tomorrow!

Always Living and Forever Learning,
Sha'Carey Martin


  1. This was the best Sunday ever...and your post is a reminder not to plan and relax!
    xo Tangie